During Holiday Gatherings, Spend Time Assessing Aging Family Members

With fuel prices the lowest in four years, more than 40 million Americans are expected to take to the roadways, railways and airways as they head home for the holidays. Take advantage of one of the few occasions when multiple generations gather under one roof to observe signs of decline in aging loved ones.

“Adult family members visiting their parents over the holidays should be aware of the obvious,” says Mary Merrell Bailey, an estate planning attorney. Bailey suggests watching out for a combination of the following factors:

  • Is the mail piled up or unopened, or are there notices from creditors?
  • Were mom’s family recipes burned or not cooked enough?
  • Is there insufficient food in the pantry or decaying food in the refrigerator?
  • Are the pets being cared for and is the home being maintained as usual?
  • Does the car have signs of damage?
  • Are there changes in personality, hygiene, or ability to engage in dinner conversation?

According to Bailey, spotting issues early on can help ensure that seniors who are living independently will receive proper care if their condition progresses. Mismanagement of financial and legal affairs, which often occurs with diminished capacity, can be addressed through legal guardianship proceedings.

Source: Your Caring Law Firm

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